What are your plans for this weekend? I’m really looking forward to watching Oh, Mary!, the dark comedy play centered on Mary Todd Lincoln. It’s expected to be quite funny, and I’m eager to see Cole Escola perform live. Additionally, check out our Cup of Jo Holiday Gift Guide so far, along with our Big Salad Gift Guide showcasing three friends. Wishing you a great weekend, and here are some interesting links I found online…
Would you participate in a Jeremy Allen-White lookalike contest?
I adore the cable detailing on this sweater — and oh my, this skirt!
An entirely vegetarian Thanksgiving. (NYTimes gift link)
How the Irish became dominant in pop culture. Columnist Séamas O’Reilly states that Ireland has the advantage of being “everyone’s second-favorite country.” Writer Róisín Lanigan observes that media often portray “a specific kind of Irish. Generally, it appears to be, ‘They’re attractive and melancholic.’” (NYMag)
20 delicious cookie-swap recipes.
Would you consider making a tater tot quiche?
“When I was a teen, I used to take the train to the record store searching for rare finds,” recounts filmmaker Don Hertzfeldt. “Although Spotify is much more convenient, that wasn’t the point. The essence was about getting out there and feeling like a hunter.” This resonates with me regarding Netflix versus Blockbuster Video — driving with all your cousins and siblings to Blockbuster on December 26th to negotiate what movie to rent and enjoy as a family? Now that felt like living!
This book is incredibly enjoyable.
What an impressive Tony Soprano impression.
Cold swimming beneath ice appears intensely claustrophobic.
John Krasinski was named People’s Sexiest Man Alive, and Hunter Harris shares his thoughts: “He could easily be the sexiest man at an airport Panera. He might also be the sexiest man at a small Midwest private university. He could even be the sexiest man at a Pottery Barn outlet snagging a fantastic deal on a large lamp. No, John Krasinski was not the sexiest man alive in 2024. He wasn’t even the sexiest man in The Office! (That title belonged to David Wallace.) In fact, John Krasinski isn’t even the sexiest in his own family; that’s reserved for his brother-in-law, Stanley Tucci.”
Hahaha.
Additionally, here are three reader comments:
Emily says about the parenting stage you’re in: “I came across something so lovely the other day — redefining the ‘Empty Nest’ stage as the ‘Open Door’ phase, and tailoring your parenting toward that being the goal. Your home should have an open door for your grown kids to come and go, whether through texts, calls, or in-person visits.”
Kara shares her low-key wish for humanity: “I wasn’t diagnosed with autism until I was 34. When a shopping cart is empty, it’s SO MUCH LOUDER and rattles much more. I always found it hard to return the cart because pushing it across asphalt felt like nails in my hands and ears. I had no idea not everyone experienced this; I just thought I was lazy human trash. After my diagnosis, I began noticing all the things I had been tolerating. At the grocery store checkout, when the clerk asked, ‘Do you need help out?’ it suddenly struck me that I DID. I replied, ‘Yeah, uh, I have autism, and the cart is rather rattle-y; could someone push it for me while I cover my ears?’ And she responded, ‘Sure! Absolutely!’ When I reached my car, and the person took away the cart, I climbed into the front seat and cried. This was the first instance I’d not had to return the cart myself, sparing my nerves. It wasn’t a big deal for them to assist me, but it was a HUGE DEAL for me to recognize I could ask. Here’s the summary: If you ever catch yourself asking, ‘Why can’t you just —’ STOP. Don’t finish that sentence. The world is incredibly challenging, and you never know what another person’s battle may be. So, if you’re able, definitely return the cart. But making negative assumptions about someone who isn’t doing something *you* find simple only makes the world a tougher place.”
Cyndi reflects on her low-key wish for humanity: “I’m reminded of wise words from our beloved Catherine Newman during an NPR interview: ‘[Being an etiquette columnist] has influenced every part of my life. After writing an etiquette column for a decade, you become aware that it’s quite difficult to accept the fact of others’ differences. Every etiquette question boils down to that. You dislike someone’s wind chimes. Someone puts on lipstick at the table. Should you invite your gay cousin-in-law to your wedding? The crux of each inquiry is, people vary from me, and I can’t tolerate it. But the essential message you have to give is, you must tolerate it. That’s the human experience. You should approach it with as much grace as humanly possible, which is more grace than you’re currently showing.’ I often refer back to this wisdom, especially while navigating life with twin toddlers.”
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**Celebrate a Tasty and Fulfilling Weekend**
Weekends serve as an opportunity to relax, rejuvenate, and delight in the activities that bring us happiness. After a busy week of work, school, or daily obligations, the weekend presents a welcomed chance to de-stress and focus on self-nurturing. One of the most rewarding ways to ensure your weekend is genuinely gratifying is by exploring enjoyable experiences that nourish both your body and mind. Whether through delectable food, creative endeavors, or meaningful interactions, here’s how you can celebrate a tasty and fulfilling weekend.
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### 1. **Begin with a Delightful Breakfast**
The weekend is an ideal time to relax and enjoy a substantial breakfast. Rather than hurrying through a quick weekday meal, indulge in something special. Think about preparing fluffy pancakes topped with fresh fruit, a savory omelet brimming with your favorite vegetables, or a comforting bowl of oatmeal with honey and nuts. Pair it with a freshly brewed coffee or tea, and lavish in the luxury of a slow morning.
For an additional treat, experiment with new recipes or cuisines. You might try shakshuka (a Middle Eastern dish of poached eggs in a spiced tomato sauce) or a classic French croissant with jam. Kicking off your day with a tasty breakfast paves the way for a weekend filled with indulgence and solace.
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### 2. **Embark on a Culinary Adventure**
Food is one of life’s greatest joys, and the weekend offers the perfect opportunity to discover new culinary delights. Here are a few suggestions to make your weekend meals unforgettable:
– **Try a New Recipe:** Challenge yourself with a dish you’ve never cooked before. Whether it’s homemade sushi, a spicy curry, or a rich dessert, cooking can be a creative and fulfilling venture.
– **Explore a Local Market:** Farmers’ markets and specialty food shops are treasure chests filled with fresh produce and unique flavors. Gather seasonal ingredients, artisanal cheeses, or freshly baked bread to prepare a gourmet meal at home.
– **Dine at a New Restaurant:** Treat yourself to a meal at that restaurant you’ve been eager to try. Choose a cuisine you don’t usually enjoy, like Ethiopian, Thai, or Mediterranean, to expand your taste buds and have a culinary journey.
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### 3. **Participate in Creative Activities**
A fulfilling weekend entails more than just food—it’s also about nurturing your spirit. Engaging in creative activities can help you unwind, express yourself, and bask in the present moment. Here are some ways to spark your creativity:
– **Bake or Decorate:** Baking cookies, cakes, or bread can be a therapeutic and enjoyable process. If you’re feeling crafty, try decorating cupcakes or cookies with vibrant frosting and designs.
– **Engage in DIY Projects:** Whether it’s painting, crafting, or gardening, participating in a hands-on project can be incredibly rewarding. Create something that enhances the beauty or functionality of your home.
– **Music or Dance:** Put on your favorite tunes and let loose! Dancing in your living room or learning a new tune on an instrument can be an uplifting way to express yourself and boost your spirits.
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### 4. **Reconnect with Loved Ones**
Weekends provide a wonderful opportunity to strengthen bonds and build lasting memories with family and friends. Sharing delicious experiences with loved ones can enhance your weekend even further. Here are some ideas:
– **Host a Potluck or Picnic:** Invite friends or family over for a potluck dinner where everyone contributes a dish. Alternatively, assemble a picnic basket filled with sandwiches, salads, and snacks, and enjoy an outdoor meal in a local park.
– **Game Night or Movie Marathon:** Spend quality time with your loved ones by organizing a game night or binge-watching your favorite movies together. Enhance the experience with homemade popcorn or a charcuterie spread for added flair.
– **Virtual Gatherings:** If loved ones are far away, connect through a virtual cooking class or wine tasting. Sharing an experience, even remotely, can forge meaningful connections.
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### 5. **Prioritize Self-Care**
An enriching weekend wouldn’t be complete without dedicating time to self-care. Treating yourself can help you rejuvenate and feel your best. Consider these self-care practices:
– **Spa Day at Home:** Pamper yourself with a calming bath infused with essential oils, a facial mask, and a soothing playlist. Light some candles and create a peaceful environment.
– **Mindful Eating:** Take the time to fully savor your meals. Focus on the flavors, textures, and scents of your food. Practicing mindful eating can heighten your appreciation for the meal and make it more gratifying.
– **Rest and Recharge:** Be sure to prioritize relaxation. Sleep in, enjoy a nap, or immerse yourself in a captivating book. Allowing your body and mind to unwind is vital for a satisfying weekend.
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### 6. **Discover the Outdoors**
Nature has an incredible way of refreshing the spirit and bringing a sense of adventure to your weekend. Whether you’re a foodie
