What are your plans for this weekend? The weather in New York is lovely, and Toby kicks off baseball practice tomorrow. I adore watching my children play. Also, for those who have been inquiring, our yearly babaà discount code will be available on Monday! Feel free to check back then if you’re interested. Wishing you a great weekend, and here are some interesting links from around the internet…
“The sex sabbatical that transformed my ‘sexless marriage.’” An excellent essay. (NYMag)
Do you remember the film ‘Freaky Friday’? A follow-up titled ‘Freakier Friday’ is on its way!
What a beautiful date night dress (and it’s discounted).
My favorite pajamas are discounted too.
Numerous Cup of Jo readers suggested Laurie Corwin’s book Happy All The Time, so I grabbed a copy, and I’m captivated by her portrayals of smitten young men: “He wished to turn Holly into water and consume her.”
Oh my, microwave sticky toffee pudding. (NYTimes gift link)
How do animals express sounds in different languages? I recall singing a duck song in France during my childhood, where I would say “kwan kwan” instead of quack. What a cool experience that was. (Via Kottke)
Chappell Roan ventures into country music!
Ted Lasso is set to return for a fourth season, this time in Kansas.
My sister Lucy’s Ask Me Anything offers a fantastic parenting tip, what shocked her most when her husband Paul passed away, and the pants that make her feel stylish. (Big Salad)
Sounds about right.
Plus, three reader comments:
Tara shares her thoughts on the moment she felt like herself again after having kids: “I’m up reading Cup of Jo at 1:29 a.m., as opposed to before kids, when I’d read at 3 p.m. at my job lol. I feel as if I’m just getting by. My neighbor used to text me daily reminding me about my car door being left open. I left my keys in the door so often post-birth that I decided to get a keyless entry. That’s motherhood for you. Small steps forward and backward. I’m not the version of the girl I once was. I’m getting some white hairs. I miss how my breasts looked before they had to work. They’ve drooped quite a bit. I’ve never felt more like a mammal than I do as a mom. But he brings me dandelions daily, which we put in a jar with water. We are our own little family, and tonight, we read a book about his family, which consists of just Mama and Lennox. For the first time tonight, he exclaimed, ‘Lennox has NO DADDY JUST A MOMMY.’ He was SO thrilled and gave me the biggest hug. Getting myself pregnant was the best choice, and whew I’ll never be that girl reading Cup of Jo at 3 p.m. on my office computer because I had all the time in the world, but no dandelions.”
Katherine reflects on her challenging journey to quit drinking: “I am firmly in the messy middle right now. Downloaded the Less app on Sunday. Today marks day three without a drink — that’s the longest I’ve gone without one in years. I’m contemplating quitting entirely. I’m also considering moderation. Whatever it is, it’s constantly on my mind. I really needed to read this today. Thank you.”
Steph mentions cottage cheese pancakes: “More recipes should feature the term ‘bloop.’”
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# Wishing You a Fabulous and Relaxing Weekend
The weekend embodies a chance to unwind, rejuvenate, and savor moments of tranquility and joy. After a hectic week, taking time for yourself and your family is crucial for maintaining a balanced and gratifying life. Whether your plan is to relax at home, spend moments with loved ones, or dive into new adventures, maximizing your weekend can infuse joy and replenish your energy for the upcoming week.
## The Significance of a Calm Weekend
A calming weekend isn’t just a luxury—it’s essential for mental and physical health. Here are a few reasons why prioritizing rest and rejuvenation is vital:
### 1. **Mitigates Stress and Anxiety**
The demands of work, school, and everyday duties can accumulate throughout the week. Taking time to unwind helps decrease stress levels, uplift mood, and foster overall mental health.
### 2. **Enhances Productivity**
Taking a break over the weekend enables you to approach your tasks feeling revitalized and inspired. A rested brain is more concentrated and productive.
### 3. **Fosters Physical Well-Being**
Continuous stress and overexertion can lead to health issues like headaches, fatigue, and a compromised immune system. A restful weekend aids your body in recovery and keeping well.
### 4. **Bolsters Relationships**
Quality time spent with family and friends strengthens connections and creates cherished memories. Social bonds are key for happiness and wellness.
### 5. **Promotes Personal Development**
Weekends offer a chance to delve into hobbies, read, exercise, or acquire new skills. Engaging in pursuits you enjoy can provide a sense of fulfillment and pleasure.
## Suggestions for an Amazing and Relaxing Weekend
To fully enjoy your weekend, consider these straightforward yet effective tips:
### 1. **Disconnect from Work**
Try to establish limits and refrain from checking emails or work messages. Allow yourself the freedom to take a breather and focus on personal time.
### 2. **Prioritize Rest**
Sleep is crucial for overall health. Use the weekend to catch up on rest and help your body recuperate from the week’s challenges.
### 3. **Spend Time in Nature**
The outdoors has a soothing impact on the mind and body. Take a stroll in a park, go for a hike, or just sit outside to savor the fresh air.
### 4. **Pursue a Hobby**
Whether it’s reading, painting, gardening, or playing an instrument, engaging in something you love can bring about relaxation and joy.
### 5. **Embrace Mindfulness and Meditation**
Spending a few moments on meditation, deep breathing exercises, or yoga can help clear your thoughts and alleviate stress.
### 6. **Relish Quality Moments with Loved Ones**
Organize a family meal, reconnect with friends, or have a cozy movie night with family. Socializing fosters happiness and strengthens bonds.
### 7. **Pamper Yourself**
Enjoy something that brings you joy, be it a scrumptious meal, a spa treatment, or a beloved book. Self-care is essential for unwinding.
### 8. **Consider a Short Escape**
If feasible, plan a brief outing to a nearby spot. A change in environment can be refreshing and uplifting.
## Concluding Thoughts
As the weekend draws near, take a moment to focus on your well-being and joy. Whether you opt to relax, discover, or cherish time with loved ones, ensure to embrace every moment. An enjoyable weekend can leave you feeling rejuvenated, revitalized, and prepared to tackle the new week with optimism and vigor.
**Wishing you a fabulous and relaxing weekend!** 😊
