What are your plans for the weekend? We’ve had quite an eventful week for various reasons, but this weekend Toby is celebrating his 15th birthday! (Seems like just yesterday, etc.) I’m genuinely thrilled to host a group of energetic kids, play basketball, and enjoy caramel cake. Wishing you a great weekend, and here are some interesting links from around the internet…
Simple strawberry lemonade.
Ways to sneeze discreetly. (Immediately forwarded this to my dad.)
Brooklinen, our top home and bedding brand, is offering a 25% discount sitewide. We have their gorgeous bundles on our beds, and I sleep incredibly well on their pillows.
How amazing is this 400-square-foot house by a lake in Germany?
Chats over email with my son about taking naps on weekends.
Seven fashion trends I noticed in Paris, including a really stylish haircut. (Big Salad)
Anticipating tomato season. (NYTimes gift link)
A quick remedy for restless legs. (via Haley)
Ten pieces of advice I’d give to my 16-year-old self. “There will come a moment when you’ll long for your sister’s company” and “Just because someone is an adult doesn’t mean they’re correct.”
How spectacular are astronaut Don Pettit’s images from space? (NYTimes gift link)
Unsung champions of motherhood. “Julie Owens, who heroically donned a tankini in mid-January to escort her twins to an indoor water park. After narrowly avoiding swallowing a wet Band-Aid in the wave pool, Owens — demonstrating great bravery — merely dry heaved three times.”
Oh goodness.
Lol.
Next Tuesday in Brooklyn, I’ll be sharing the stage with my friend Adam Roberts, discussing his amusing debut novel — Food Person — which focuses on a ghostwriter for cookbooks. Come join us if you’d like!
Additionally, two reader responses:
Jess on recent glimmers: “Oh man, Jo, I wish I could send you a snapshot – today’s glimmer was walking by a random shopfront here in Oxford, England, and spotting a beautiful picnic display in the window (red-and-white checkered blanket, wicker basket, faux grass, etc.) with a French bulldog relaxing in the center of the blanket, looking at me with sad eyes. A quick look confirmed that, yes, the dog was indeed real! I think he enjoys that window spot, so the shop owners have set up a scene for him. Bliss.”
Kate on four lovely motherhood poems: “Not a poem, but this excerpt from Little Fires Everywhere by Celeste Ng keeps hitting me hard:
‘Parents, she reflected, learn to cope with touching their children less as time passes. As a baby, Pearl had clung to her; she’d worn Pearl in a sling because every time she set her down, Pearl would cry. There had hardly been a moment throughout the day when they were not pressed together. As she aged, Pearl would still cling to her mother’s leg, then her waist, then her hand, as though there was something in her mother she needed to absorb through contact. Even when she had her own bed, she would often crawl into Mia’s in the middle of the night and snuggle under the old patchwork quilt, and in the morning they would awaken tangled, Mia’s arm pinned beneath Pearl’s head, or Pearl’s legs draped across Mia’s belly. Now, as a teen, Pearl’s affections had become scarce — a peck on the cheek, a one-armed, half-hearted hug — and all the more valuable because of it. It was the way of things, Mia thought, but how challenging it was. The rare embrace, a head resting for a brief moment on your shoulder, when what you truly desired more than anything was to pull them close and hold them so tightly that you fused together and could never be separated. It was like forcing yourself to live on the scent of an apple alone, when what you genuinely craved was to indulge in it, to bite into it and relish it, seeds, core, and all.’”
(Photo by Jacqui Miller/Stocksy.)
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**Wishing You a Tranquil and Refreshing Weekend: The Necessity of Rest and Rejuvenation**
As the week comes to a close and the weekend nears, many of us anticipate a chance to step away from the frenetic pace of our daily lives. Whether you’ve had a demanding week filled with meetings, deadlines, or personal commitments, the weekend presents a wonderful opportunity to recharge, reflect, and reconnect with what truly holds significance. Wishing someone a tranquil and refreshing weekend is not just a kind sentiment—it serves as a reminder of the significance of self-care and equilibrium in our lives.
### The Importance of Rest
In our fast-moving world, rest is frequently overlooked. We exist in a culture that often praises busyness and efficiency, sometimes at the cost of our mental and physical wellness. Yet, studies repeatedly demonstrate that taking time to rest is vital for preserving good health, enhancing focus, and increasing overall happiness.
A quiet weekend allows the body to recuperate from the week’s physical demands. It also affords the mind an opportunity to unwind, diminishing stress and anxiety levels. Whether it’s sleeping in a bit later, relishing a leisurely breakfast, or simply strolling through nature, these minor acts of rest can greatly benefit our well-being.
### The Magic of Relaxation
Relaxation isn’t merely about idleness—it’s about engaging in activities that bring you joy and peace. For some, this might entail curling up with a good book, practicing yoga, or enjoying calming music. For others, it might involve spending quality time with family, diving into a cherished hobby, or exploring the great outdoors.
The key is to be deliberate about how you dedicate your time. By intentionally creating moments for relaxation, you carve out space to recuperate your energy and return to your responsibilities with renewed focus and enthusiasm.
### Suggestions for a Calm and Refreshing Weekend
1. **Disconnect from Technology**: Consider stepping away from emails, social media, and constant alerts. Unplugging can help you be more present and aware.
2. **Prepare in Advance**: While spontaneity is wonderful, having a flexible plan can maximize your weekend experience. Focus on activities that nourish your body and soul.
3. **Embrace Mindfulness**: Whether through meditation, deep breathing, or simply savoring a cup of tea, mindfulness can help ground your thoughts and alleviate stress.
4. **Enjoy the Outdoors**: Spending time in nature is known to elevate mood and decrease anxiety. Even a brief walk in the park can have a positive effect.
5. **Connect with Family and Friends**: Meaningful discussions and shared experiences provide emotional support and enhance relationships.
6. **Engage in What You Love**: Utilize the weekend for activities that bring you joy, whether it’s painting, gardening, cooking, or watching your favorite film.
### The Ripple Effect of Rest
When we prioritize rest and relaxation, we not only enhance our own well-being but also positively influence those around us. A well-rested individual is more patient, understanding, and productive. By exemplifying self-care, we inspire others to follow suit, fostering a culture that cherishes well-being and balance.
### A Thoughtful Expression
So, the next time you say, “Wishing you a peaceful and relaxing weekend,” remember that you’re offering more than mere words. You’re highlighting the importance of rest, promoting self-care, and spreading positivity. It’s a simple yet impactful way to show you care.
As the weekend draws near, take a moment to pause, breathe, and seize the chance to unwind. Whether you choose to spend it alone or surrounded by loved ones, may your weekend be filled with serenity, relaxation, and joy.
**Happy Weekend!**
