What are your plans for this weekend? Since my boys are away, Freddie and I decided to head upstate to work during the day, swim in the evenings, and gaze at a million stars at night. Can you spot stars where you live? It’s incredible up here and makes me realize how the NYC sky is essentially empty. Hope you have a good one, and here are some links from around the web…
Freddie is a fan of CoJ and Big Salad readers (he really enjoys the comment sections), so we recorded a conversation between us (I adore his voice!) where he responds to readers’ queries about dating on apps, teaching high schoolers, and being recognized on the street. You can listen to it here, if you’re interested.
Catbird, my go-to place for jewelry, is currently holding their massive end-of-summer sale. I’m so into this.
When the icebergs visited.
Salmon and tomatoes wrapped in foil, yum. (NYTimes gift link)
A lovely piece on raising a toddler. “Before I became a parent, when people described how tough it was, I always envisioned total chaos, like the start of Mrs. Doubtfire when Robin Williams’s character allowed his kids to throw an unplanned birthday bash and barn animals somehow got mixed in. In truth, parenting is…more about the persistence of minor responsibilities, unrelenting like a stream…Sending this message today in support of anyone who made a significant decision and is finding it hard to keep up.” (Maybe Baby, gift link)
How to create a bed atmosphere reminiscent of Britain.
Obsessed with this new beauty product I discovered.
Attention fellow Jane Austen enthusiasts: Daisy Edgar-Jones will star in a fresh adaptation of Sense & Sensibility, and Olivia Colman is set to feature in a new Pride & Prejudice.
Loving J.Crew’s partnership with a trendy Parisian brand. (This top is simply amazing!)
I’m giving my child a ‘90s summer…the 1890s.
Hahahaha.
Finally, we’re offering a 20% discount on Big Salad annual subscriptions for the upcoming week (that’s $4/month). You’ll receive a full year of Big Salad, along with access to all the archived issues — including four methods to strengthen friendships as adults, my personal botox journey, and how to recognize if it’s time to divorce. We’d be thrilled to have you on board! xoxo
Additionally, three reader comments:
Marian Schembari shares on what affordable things improve life: “I absolutely dread washing my face because the water splashes everywhere, soaking my arms and the floor. It’s a sensory nightmare. But then I discovered that using sweat wristbands allows the water to soak into the fabric, keeping everything else dry. For $10, it has changed everything.”
Jess remarks on how to make a wedding feel authentic: “We rented a beach house, where our ceremony would happen in front. The night before, all the girls got together, and we ran out bare and went skinny dipping in the ocean. At one moment, I glanced at my mother-in-law beside me, and we just burst out laughing!”
Tracey comments on how to support children who’ve lost parents: “People often withdraw after a loss because they fear making things worse. However, loving someone during difficult times means sometimes acknowledging you won’t always get it right. At times, the grieving person may feel like anything anyone does is misguided. Unless you can resurrect the dead, you are failing me. Embracing all that complexity is love. Stay. Make missteps. Apologize. Breathe.”
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**Savor a Peaceful Weekend Experience**
In the whirlwind of today’s world, finding moments to relax and recharge is crucial for sustaining a healthy balance between work and personal life. A peaceful weekend experience allows for the perfect chance to unwind, refresh, and reconnect with oneself. Here are some suggestions to help you create a calm and restorative weekend.
**1. Disconnect from Digital Devices:**
One of the best ways to enjoy a peaceful weekend is to unplug from technology. Put away your smartphone, tablet, and computer, and concentrate on being in the moment. This digital break can alleviate stress and enhance mental clarity.
**2. Embrace the Outdoors:**
Spending time in nature is an effective way to calm the mind and body. Whether it’s a stroll in the park, a hike in the hills, or a day at the shoreline, immersing yourself in natural environments can boost your sense of well-being and provide a refreshing change from daily life.
**3. Adopt Mindfulness:**
Engaging in mindfulness activities such as meditation, yoga, or deep-breathing exercises can help you cultivate tranquility and relaxation. These activities encourage you to be present, easing anxiety and fostering a sense of calm.
**4. Treat Yourself with Self-Care:**
A calm weekend is an excellent opportunity to engage in self-care routines that nourish your spirit and body. Think about taking a long bath, diving into a favorite book, or enjoying a massage. Prioritizing self-care helps you feel revitalized and prepared for the week ahead.
**5. Savor a Relaxed Meal:**
Dedicate time to prepare and relish a delightful meal, whether alone or with others. Cooking can serve as a therapeutic experience, and enjoying a relaxed meal lets you appreciate the tastes and textures of your food, thereby enhancing your overall dining experience.
**6. Participate in Creative Ventures:**
Creative activities like painting, writing, or making music can be extremely satisfying and offer a sense of achievement. These pursuits allow for self-expression and can be a splendid way to unwind and tap into your artistic side.
**7. Connect with Friends and Family:**
Spending meaningful time with those you love can boost your sense of connection and happiness. Whether it’s a casual get-together or an intimate conversation, nurturing relationships can provide emotional support and add to a tranquil weekend.
**8. Plan a Staycation:**
If traveling isn’t feasible, think about organizing a staycation. Check out local attractions, visit a nearby spa, or simply relish the coziness of your home. A staycation can provide the advantages of a vacation without the stress of travel, enabling you to relax and recharge.
By adding these strategies to your weekend routine, you can create a serene experience that leaves you feeling invigorated and ready to confront the challenges of the upcoming week. Remember, the secret to a peaceful weekend is to focus on activities that bring you joy and tranquility.
