What are your plans for this weekend? The guys and I are wandering around town after a hectic week. Sometimes it’s great to just relax at home and gaze at the ceiling. Wishing you a delightful weekend, and here are some links from across the internet…
Freddie and I shared our experiences from our first date. “Oh wow, I feel so anxious just discussing this.” (Big Salad gift link).
DSW is hosting a major shoe sale, featuring everyday flats and stylish sneakers.
Messages you should send me after we hang out. “Hey, thanks a lot for coming tonight. I’ve checked in with everyone else at the gathering, and we all agree you acted totally normal and didn’t say anything odd or concerning whatsoever.”
Should we all go for choppy bangs?
The 25 most iconic magazine covers in history. (NYTimes gift link)
If you aspire to dress like Madeline.
Feeling stuck? Play with some building blocks!
Oh my goodness, these quilted portraits.
Adore this alluring fragrance.
Buffalo Fluffalo gains a sibling.
Creative Halloween party idea.
Additionally, two comments from readers:
Says Jillian on helping this reader find work pants: “I interviewed for my dream librarian position last week, and I’m NERVOUS waiting for a response. If I land it, I’m going all-in with the librarian look—theme sweaters, novelty jewelry, plaid pants, a wardrobe filled with quirky glasses. It’s going to become my entire identity for a time! Fingers crossed!
Says Kelly regarding the most romantic poem: “I’m new to poetry and have only a few poets I truly admire. One of my introductory poets has been David Gate. My favorite of his is ‘Stay Weird.’ I have many geeky interests and have struggled with hiding them for acceptance (therefore feeling less like myself) or revealing them (and feeling like an outsider). I now display this poem on a shelf, so I see it every morning as a reminder that being true to myself is significant…”
Stay Weird
by David Gate
Make your section of this world
as quirky as you desire
geek out in every manner
your unconventional heart wishes
be a fan
be a supporter
embrace passion
appreciate expression
remember that a doctor
is merely a body nerd
and a rock star
is just a music nerd
thus there’s no reason to hide
all the ways you stand out
because each of us
is a stunning little freak
(Photo of Toby and me.)
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**Wishing You a Wonderful Weekend: A Blueprint for Making the Most of Your Free Time**
Weekends are a valued period for unwinding, revitalization, and enjoyment. After a hectic week of work or education, the weekend provides a vital opportunity to relax and indulge in pursuits that spark joy and satisfaction. Here’s how to optimize your weekend to make it both enjoyable and productive.
**1. Emphasize Rest and Rejuvenation**
The significance of rest is immense. Utilize the weekend to catch up on sleep and let your body recuperate from the week’s pressures. Consider embracing a slow morning with a cup of coffee or tea, diving into a good book, or simply relaxing in bed. Activities like meditation or yoga can also aid in relieving tension and enhancing mental clarity.
**2. Organize Fun Activities**
While rest is essential, weekends also offer the chance to dive into hobbies you love but might not find time for during the week. Whether it’s hiking, biking, painting, or cooking, select activities that fill you with joy and let you express your creativity. Arranging a day trip or trying a new hobby can breathe excitement into your weekend.
**3. Connect with Family and Friends**
Weekends are ideal for cherishing time with loved ones. Plan a gathering, have a picnic in the park, or enjoy a movie night at home. Social connections are crucial for emotional health, and sharing moments with those close to you can build lasting memories.
**4. Disconnect and Unplug**
In our modern digital environment, it’s easy to stay connected to screens and gadgets. Intentionally set aside time to unplug from work emails and social media. This digital detox can alleviate stress and help you be more present, enhancing your overall weekend experience.
**5. Reflect and Establish Goals**
Use the weekend as a moment for self-reflection. Consider journaling about your week, highlighting accomplishments and areas needing improvement. Setting aspirational goals for the coming week can provide clarity and inspiration. Reflecting on personal growth and objectives can be both illuminating and empowering.
**6. Participate in Physical Activities**
Engaging in physical activities is an excellent way to elevate your mood and energy. Whether taking a brisk walk, jogging, or having a workout session, exercise releases endorphins that uplift your sense of wellness. Outdoor improvements also bring the bonus of fresh air and nature, which can be very refreshing.
**7. Pamper Yourself**
Self-care is vital for a delightful weekend. Treat yourself to a spa experience at home, featuring a bubble bath, skincare routine, and soothing music. Self-care practices can help rejuvenate you and prepare you for the week ahead.
**Conclusion**
An enjoyable weekend strikes a balance among relaxation, recreation, and reflection. By focusing on activities that nourish your mind, body, and spirit, you can fully capitalize on your downtime and return to your responsibilities feeling revitalized and energized. Whether you opt to relax, explore, or bond, here’s hoping you experience a weekend filled with joy and tranquility.
