Folks, spring’s first day arrives tomorrow! We made it!!! Here are tulips to mark the occasion.
Have you checked out Strangers, Belle Burden’s divorce memoir? One night, she finds her hedge-fund spouse has been unfaithful; by morning, he declares he’s leaving. Her world turns upside down — all this while tending to their three kids during the pandemic — forcing her to literally lift herself off the bathroom floor. Belle is from immense generational wealth — sometimes I thought, maybe it’s not the end of the world if you miss out on the tennis club membership in the divorce? — but the tale of her regaining balance, and discovering herself, after her marriage collapses was incredibly intriguing, heartfelt, and relatable.
We’ve already noted how walking (just walking) can transform your life, and for my fellow walkers, I’d strongly suggest BlissMove sneakers, which are comfy, soft, supportive and make me want to discard my old pairs.
These chocolate-coated pistachios from Trader Joe’s are indeed delightful.
Lastly, a reminder about national treasure and poet Kate Baer, who stayed over at my place last night! We played Ono 99 (as one would) and chatted about work, parenthood, bookshops, and why it took her eight years to begin watching Succession. Here’s one of her poems, just because:
What have you been enjoying lately? I’d love to know.
P.S. More enjoyable things, and a darkly witty book that lingers in my mind.
(The tulip vase is by my friend Grace Cady.)
**Four Fun Activities to Try**
In today’s hectic world, carving out time to relax and enjoy leisure activities is crucial for sustaining a balanced life. Whether aiming to unwind, connect with others, or engage your mind, there is a multitude of activities available. Here are four fun activities that can offer enjoyment and relaxation.
1. **Board Games and Puzzles**
Board games and puzzles are timeless entertainment forms that can be enjoyed alone or with others. They provide a fantastic way to engage your mind, enhance strategic skills, and promote social interaction. From games like “Settlers of Catan” to cooperative ones like “Pandemic,” there’s a board game to suit all preferences. Puzzles, meanwhile, are ideal for those who relish solitary challenges, with options ranging from jigsaw puzzles to brain teasers.
2. **Outdoor Adventures**
For outdoor enthusiasts, countless activities offer entertainment and exercise. Hiking, cycling, and kayaking are superb ways to explore nature while keeping active. Such activities not only confer physical advantages but also boost mental health by enabling a break from daily pressures and a chance to reconnect with the environment. Whether you choose a gentle park stroll or a challenging mountain trek, outdoor adventures are a fulfilling way to spend your time.
3. **Cooking and Baking**
Cooking and baking are creative pursuits that can be both relaxing and gratifying. Trying new recipes or honing a beloved dish can be an enjoyable way to pass the time. Cooking lets you explore diverse cuisines and flavors, while baking can be a therapeutic process resulting in scrumptious treats. Hosting a dinner or baking session with friends can also turn these activities into social occasions, offering a chance to share your culinary masterpieces with others.
4. **Creative Arts and Crafts**
Participating in arts and crafts is a marvelous way to express creativity and unwind. Whether painting, sketching, knitting, or pottery, these activities let you focus your thoughts and produce something tangible. Crafting can be a solitary hobby or a group activity, making it adaptable for varied social situations. Additionally, completing a project can provide a great sense of achievement and enrich your overall happiness.
In conclusion, choosing the right activity to enjoy can dramatically improve your quality of life. Whether you favor the mental challenges of board games, the physical thrill of outdoor ventures, the culinary adventures of cooking, or the creative exploration of arts and crafts, an enjoyable activity awaits everyone. So, take time to explore these options and find what brings you joy and relaxation.

