Photography by Lyndsay Hannah and styling by Wanda Furman.
The last occasion our friend Abbey Nova welcomed us into her residence, she was settled in an Upper West Side apartment together with her husband Tim and their young son, Alex. Fast forward 13 years, and now Abbey, Tim, the now six-foot-tall Alex, and her younger son, Ben, reside in the northwest region of Connecticut, in a home adorned with reading corners, vibrant artwork, and an abundance of plants. Here’s a glimpse inside…
LIVING ROOM
Sofas: Lee Industries. Coffee table: Custom. Lamps: Hackeny Floor Lamp. Side table: similar. Rug: Loloi.
On taking time: I’m a meticulous decorator, constantly rearranging furniture and even transforming the purpose of a room until it feels just right. Back when we lived in New York, I could instantly achieve the look I desired in our apartments. However, this house is showing me that some spaces require patience. If a room seems off, I trust that in time, I’ll discover the perfect layout, artwork, or whatever is needed.
Amaryllis: Van Engelen Inc.
On brightening winter: I grew up in a remote area of Vermont, where winters were cold and dark, making it easy to get snowed in. My mom, however, beautifully surrounded herself with lovely things, especially during those gray months. She cultivated Amaryllis bulbs from January through March. Now, they serve as my winter survival tool as well.
Painting: Michael Abrams. Dollhouse: Etsy.
On meaningful art: This Michael Abrams piece may be my favorite in our home. His artwork reflects Tim’s love for nature and our collective bond to this area. When we were newlyweds, I surprised Tim with a trip to the gallery where he selected this painting. I still recall the joy on his face when he chose it and how mature I felt at that moment.
On an evolving paint combo: For this room, we opted for Farrow & Ball Elephant’s Breath, a warm gray hue that shifts with the light — in the evening, it even takes on a lilac tone. We painted the ceilings in White Dove by Benjamin Moore.
Pendant: Shades of Light. Table: Design Within Reach. Chairs: Design Within Reach.
On summer traditions: During summer, our family enjoys meals at this table since we can leave the side door open for a refreshing breeze. One of our favorite dishes is grilled kebabs paired with a simple arugula salad topped with shaved Parmesan.
Table: “From my childhood home.” Print: Commissioned from Michael McKay.
On growing plants: Some plants have thrived in my care for 10 years, while others, despite my efforts, don’t survive. I used to feel like a failure whenever a plant died. But with time, I learned not to repurchase those types! I also enjoy the app PictureThis, which identifies plants and shares care tips just by uploading a photo.
KITCHEN/DINING ROOM
On meals that suit everyone: For weeknight dinners, rice bowls with teriyaki salmon and edamame feature prominently on our menu. We also enjoy peanut noodles with broccoli and crispy baked tofu. Any bowl meal works well since everyone can customize it to their liking.
Table: Facebook Marketplace. Chairs: Design Within Reach via Charish.
On a dog named Argus: My oldest son, Alex, has dyslexia, and for reading, he delved into audiobooks and graphic novels, becoming enamored with The Odyssey series. In the tale, Odysseus’s dog, who recognizes him after two decades when no one else does, is named Argus. So, when we welcomed our cherished pup, we had to name him Argus. It feels like a powerful name for a dog, but also rather sweet.
Dresser: Craigslist. Food = Love print: Katherine Miles Jones. Woman’s portrait: “My great grandmother Dorothy West.”
On crafting a balanced gallery wall: First, I marked the shape and dimensions of the wall on the floor with painter’s tape. Then, I gathered all our artwork and arranged it within the taped boundaries. I spent two weeks rearranging pieces and sending Tim photos of each version while he traveled for work; his keen eye offered valuable suggestions. Viewing the arrangements in photos helped both of us compare and decide.
On where to scout art: I often find myself resisting the allure of art. I love spending my evenings exploring online auctions and eBay listings. Two eBay sellers I frequently follow are Boris Wilnitsky Fine Arts and ArtGate-European Oil Paintings. Whenever I discover an artist whose work I adore, I create a saved search on eBay or liveauctioneers.com and monitor pieces within my budget.
On raising children with a nine-year age gap: Our boys each possess beautiful, playful, and creative traits, and their connection is heartwarming. We didn’t intend to wait so long; I experienced numerous miscarriages. However, during my pregnancy with Ben, I fretted over the nine-year age difference. I sought advice from anyone with similar sibling age gaps. Universally, the response was, ‘Don’t stress, they’re the sibling I’m closest to.’ Naturally, both my sons can irk each other, but their bond is strong as they aren’t competitive. I feel incredibly fortunate to be their mother.
PARENTS’ BEDROOM
Quilt: Schoolhouse. Velvet pillows: Collyer’s Mansion. Rug: Bed Bath & Beyond. Side table: Room & Board. Lamps: Zara Home.
On trusting your instincts: The prior owners utilized this space as a sunroom (complete with a hot tub!), but we made the unconventional choice to convert it into our main bedroom, and it has been an absolute treasure. In the mornings, sunlight streams through windows overlooking the garden. Waking up here feels so natural and serene.
On firm mattresses: I prefer my mattresses to be HARD. In college, I endured a too-soft dorm mattress until my father arrived with plywood to create the firm surface I craved. So evidently, knowing what suits you is essential for a comfortable bed.
Chairs: vintage. Pillow: The Six Bells.
On amusing pillows: My grandmother resided in an exceptionally elegant and refined home in Cambridge, Massachusetts. In her kitchen, she showcased a poster of a fancy woman clad in a fur coat pushing a loaded shopping cart with the text ‘When the going gets tough, the tough go shopping.’ It perfectly captured her humor amidst all that New England decorum. I searched for years for a copy of that poster but had no luck. So, when I found this pillow, I literally screamed in delight.
BATHROOM
Block print: “Ben created this in a printmaking class with the artist Meg Musgrove!” Planter: vintage.
On repurposing planters: Any forced bulbs such as paperwhites, hyacinths, and amaryllis look stunning in an antique bowl — just remember to add pebbles at the bottom and monitor the water level. These blooming hyacinths were gifted to me by my friend and neighbor, Pom, who operates English Garden Grown and provides seasonal flowers to local subscribers.
BEN’S ROOM
Quilt: made by Abbey. Pillow: Anthropologie. Side table: “From my childhood home.” Lamp: Target. Rainbow: “a gift from my sister.”
On kids’ books: Ben just turned seven and he is eager to not be a baby anymore. He enjoys audiobooks, particularly this series, and we listen to approximately five audiobooks weekly. For his birthday, he requested a speaker. I thought it was the sweetest wish.
Horse: thrifted.
On children’s books: I adore In The Night Kitchen by Maurice Sendak, and we’ve displayed this print throughout our home. When we relocated Ben’s room downstairs, he exclaimed, ‘That’s my favorite book. Can I have that in my room?’ We had read it extensively when he was younger, but I had never realized it was his favorite. It reminded me that you never know which moments might stick with your kids.
ALEX’S ROOM
Duvet: Heather Taylor Home, similar. Lamp: Target, similar.
On a surprising thing about teens: I’m continually impressed by how much Alex understands about everything. He sprained his ankle this summer, and while discussing it, he used the same terminology as my physical therapist. I later realized he picked it up from watching physical therapy videos. This pattern holds true for many subjects. He’s also an excellent cook and photographer.
Chairs: Ikea.
On embracing letting go: I feel that teens often get a bad rap. But they’re supposed to test our limits. Their role is to create distance from us. While that can be painful, witnessing their growth into unique individuals feels like such a privilege.
GARDEN
On gardening in the winter: I enjoy reading about gardens during winter. In summer, I find myself constantly outside planting and organizing. But winter is when I take time to delve into a lovely English garden book. It’s the season for planning. [Ed. note: Here’s Abbey’s garden in the summer! Absolutely stunning.]
Thank you so much, Abbey. We adore you.
P.S. More home tours, including an adorable tiny Swedish apartment and a reader’s introverted nook.
(Photography by Lyndsay Hannah and styling by Wanda Furman, for Cup of Jo.)
# Inside Abbey Nova’s Connecticut Home: Abundant Plants, Distinctive Decor, and a Cherished Dog
Abbey Nova, an innovative designer and creative force, has transformed her Connecticut home into a tranquil sanctuary overflowing with lush plants, distinctive decor, and a warm, welcoming ambiance. Situated in a peaceful neighborhood, her residence mirrors her artistic style, merging natural elements with carefully selected items that narrate a story. The affection of her beloved dog adds further warmth and charm to every corner of her space.
## A Lush Escape: The Importance of Plants in Abbey Nova’s Home
One of the most eye-catching aspects of Abbey Nova’s home is the plethora of plants that grace nearly every room. From towering fiddle-leaf figs to delicate trailing pothos, her home is a stunning tribute to the beauty and advantages of indoor greenery.
Nova asserts that plants enhance a home’s visual appeal while also fostering a feeling of wellness. “I adore how plants animate a space,” she shares. “They introduce texture, vibrancy, and a soothing atmosphere that turns a house into a true haven.”
Her collection features a mix of low-maintenance varieties like snake plants and ZZ plants, along with more intricate species such as calatheas and orchids. Each plant is strategically positioned to optimize natural light and create a cohesive flow throughout the home.
## Distinctive Decor: Melding Vintage and Contemporary
Abbey Nova’s design approach revolves around harmony—fusing vintage discoveries with modern elements to craft a space that feels both enduring and personalized. Her home is filled with unique items, from antique furnishings sourced from flea markets to contemporary artworks that inject a striking element to the walls.
A standout feature is a beautifully refurbished mid-century credenza, which acts as a focal point in the living area. Paired with a modern sculptural lamp and a collection of ceramic vases, this piece encapsulates Nova’s talent for seamlessly blending different styles.
She also has a fondness for artisanal and handmade decor. “I enjoy supporting independent artists and makers,” she explains. “Owning a piece crafted with care and intention feels significant.”
You can find handwoven textiles, locally made pottery, and unique standout items that inject personality and richness into the space throughout her home.
## The Soul of the Home: Abbey Nova’s Beloved Dog
No residence is complete without a touch of love, and for Abbey Nova, that love is embodied in her dear dog. A faithful companion, her pup infuses joy and vitality into the home, whether lounging on a sunlit rug or enthusiastically welcoming guests at the entrance.
Nova has designed her living space with her furry friend’s needs in mind, integrating pet-friendly furnishings and snug corners for her dog to unwind. Soft pet beds, chic toy storage, and easy-to-clean rugs ensure her home remains both attractive and practical.
“The best aspect of my home is that I get to share it with my dog,” she remarks. “Coming home to a wagging tail and boundless affection is the best feeling.”
## A Home That Embodies Character and Passion
Abbey Nova’s Connecticut home transcends being merely well-designed—it’s a true reflection of her character, passions, and love for natural beauty. With its thriving plants, distinctive decor, and the presence of her cherished dog, this space stands as a sanctuary that promotes comfort and creativity.
Whether you’re a plant lover, a design enthusiast, or simply someone who values a cozy and welcoming home, Abbey Nova’s abode serves as a reminder that the most beautiful interiors feel personal, inhabited, and alive.
