What are your plans for this weekend? We’re throwing a Halloween bash tonight — the guys hung bats all over our home! — and on Sunday, we’ll be rooting for the New York marathon. (Any CoJ readers participating?) Wishing you a wonderful weekend, and here are some links from around the internet…
Catbird, our long-time favorite jewelry company, is holding its annual sale ahead of the holidays. The top item on my wishlist is this stunning ring. This necklace would also make a beautiful present.
My friend Erika just welcomed her baby — isn’t this photo lovely??
How I CHEERED for Phoebe Robinson’s reel about men grumbling about their wives.
The “whimsy” pieces in these puzzles made in Maine are charming. “Whimsy pieces are those that resemble various objects or animals… If you’re tackling a puzzle of a beautiful Italian scene, you might as well have a piece shaped like a wine glass or a sailboat… One of my favorites is a woman who commissioned a giant puzzle to celebrate her debut novel. So, we created a puzzle of the book cover but included all these whimsy pieces that referenced the characters and the plot.”
Have you checked out Lily Allen’s new album, which narrates her pried-open marriage and divorce from actor David Harbour? It felt like catching up with an old friend, jaw dropped! My friend Alison said: “The best gossip session I’ve ever had.”
Absolutely loving this stick-of-butter outfit.
Oooh, such a snug rental apartment in London.
My dear friend Adam’s narrative about being diagnosed with Parkinson’s. “For the last year, I’ve dealt with a tremor that Craig would notice whenever I held up my fork, remote, or phone to play Connections. We thought it was just twitchiness or nerves, but the tremor remained.”
The upcoming HBO series I Love LA is being likened to a west-coast Girls.
New York City enjoys a little indulgence. Check out these 46 favorites. Which would you pick? (NYTimes gift link)
I don’t often pay much attention to runway shows, but Celine outdid themselves. This color combination! This belt arrangement! This 1910s equestrian vibe!
Finally, nine ways Kate Baer is making her 40s her most incredible decade, including a sex playlist (“I don’t want to hear mouth sounds” lol) and insights on deepening female friendships.
Plus, three reader comments:
Says S.Lee on teaching kids emotional regulation: “As an eighth-grader in Korea, I went through a phase of extreme isolation. A total loner, with no friends, a tough time during my youth. One lunch period, I used a payphone (it was the late ’90s) to call my mom. I didn’t say much, just that it was a particularly tough day. An hour later, my homeroom teacher came to tell me to grab my backpack. My mom picked me up from school, and we headed straight to the train station. We took the next train out of Seoul and got off as soon as we left the city. There was a small river, and we hiked in the mountains and had dinner at a local spot. She didn’t ask what was wrong; we just spent the day together, walking and talking. That day gave me the strength to get through the entire year. Sometimes you just need time with someone who loves you, and that is enough.”
Says Olivia Jane on Catherine Newman’s health essay: “Catherine, it’s a good thing we don’t have your number, because the number of heart-related emojis and caring texts we would send your way would be overwhelming. Just know that the entire CoJ community is supporting you in our own ways. Big hugs, Catherine. Big hugs.”
Says Jo on a delightful gift: “I’ve never related to a creature as much as I relate to Freddie’s dog being laid-back.”
(Photo by Pete Souza.)
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**Savor a Heartfelt and Joyful Weekend**
Weekends are a beloved time for unwinding, rejuvenating, and enjoying quality moments with those you care about. Whether you’re organizing a peaceful retreat or an exciting adventure, maximizing your weekend can leave you feeling refreshed and ready for the week ahead. Here are some suggestions to ensure your weekend is both heartfelt and joyful.
**1. Connect with Nature:**
Spending time outside can greatly enhance your mood and overall health. Consider visiting a nearby park, hiking trail, or botanical garden. The fresh air and natural surroundings can serve as a peaceful backdrop for reflection and relaxation. If you’re near a beach or lake, a day by the water can be remarkably calming.
**2. Quality Time with Loved Ones:**
Weekends offer the perfect opportunity to reconnect with family and friends. Organize a picnic, barbecue, or game night. Participating in enjoyable activities together strengthens relationships and builds lasting memories. If distance is an issue, a virtual gathering can be equally meaningful.
**3. Indulge in a Hobby:**
Set aside some time for a hobby you love or try a new interest. Whether it’s painting, gardening, reading, or cooking, engaging in activities that bring you joy can be deeply rewarding. This is also an excellent time to learn something new or enhance a skill.
**4. Practice Mindfulness and Relaxation:**
Incorporate mindfulness activities into your weekend to boost your peace and happiness. Meditation, yoga, or simply taking a moment to breathe deeply can help center your thoughts and alleviate stress. Consider dedicating time for a digital detox to fully engage with the present.
**5. Explore Local Culture:**
Take advantage of community events, markets, or cultural attractions. Visiting a museum, attending a local festival, or exploring a new neighborhood can offer a new perspective and enrich your weekend experience. Supporting local artisans and businesses can nurture community spirit.
**6. Plan a Mini Adventure:**
If you’re feeling adventurous, arrange a day trip or a short escape. Discovering a nearby town or natural wonder can be an exhilarating way to break the routine and find new places. Be sure to plan ahead to maximize your adventure.
**7. Reflect and Set Intentions:**
Use the weekend to reflect on the previous week and set goals for the coming days. Journaling can be an effective method for organizing thoughts and establishing objectives. This practice can prepare you to tackle the upcoming week with clarity and purpose.
**8. Pamper Yourself:**
Treat yourself to some self-care. Whether it’s a spa day at home, a relaxing bath, or enjoying a favorite film with a cozy blanket, taking time to indulge in self-care can revitalize your spirit and enhance your sense of well-being.
In conclusion, a heartfelt and joyful weekend is about striking a balance between relaxation and activity, connection and solitude. By focusing on what truly brings you joy and fulfillment, you can create a weekend that leaves you feeling invigorated and inspired. Embrace the chance to slow down, cherish the moment, and enjoy the simple joys that life has to offer.
