What are your plans this weekend? I’ve been into Rooster — have you caught it? My heart swells at how Steve Carell’s character treasures and loves spending time with his grown-up daughter, who, btw, is played by the amazing Charly Clive, who I feel like we’d hit it off with IRL. Hope you enjoy, and here are a few links from across the web…
Banana Republic is offering 30% off until April 27th (exclusions apply). How classic is this square linen tank? I also want to wear these painter pants on every upcoming trip.
Every guy, every airport!
A glimpse inside two of the oldest houses in Brooklyn. “‘I know that the walls are cracking. I know there are nails popping up in the floorboards, but I find it absolutely glorious,’ said the 70-year-old Ms. Cunnick.” (NYT gift link)
Katie Holmes’s haircut before-and-after…should we all embrace spring chops?
In appreciation of frown lines. “When I am angry or critical (or joyful, surprised, confused) I want to be read that way… I’m seeing my ‘elevens’ with more affection now. When I knit my brows together, I see a caterpillar scrunching his way down a twig, a shar-pei puppy, an image of a tesseract from a childhood favorite, A Wrinkle in Time. I see my dad and his whip-smart mind, his many years of concentration and analysis. I see the power of these small muscles.” (Via Gloria)
How stunning is this public pool in Copenhagen?
Oooh, a lovely shirt and sandals for date nights.
Some things I said while drafting my will. “Keanu Reeves gets the kids. I feel like he’d be thrilled and handle it.” (Substack gift link)
The podcast Diabolical Lies has a pitch-perfect graphic, haha.
People are talking about this new Broadway play. “Such quintessentially British horniness is activated in the most stereotypical way possible…Their sly insults (‘I should be following her around and picking up all the names she dropped’) come at you quickly, spoken with a rat-a-tat pace.” (NYTimes gift link)
Why weekends are so wonderful.
My friend was wearing the coolest necklace the other day.
Okay. This is what I was really like in the ’90s. “We were built differently back then. I once had a three-hour argument in a mall food court about which actor was in that one movie with the bus, with absolutely no way to resolve it other than unearned confidence.”
Plus, four reader comments:
Says Sarah on tell me something lovely: “This morning, in the hustle and bustle of getting my three-year-old and myself ready to go, she said, ‘I just need to finish my list.’ I asked, ‘What’s on your list?’ and she replied, ‘TWIRL.’ Three-year-olds are the most amazing people. Here’s your reminder to stop and twirl.”
Says Molly on what jollifiers do you have in your home: “When we were engaged 15 years ago, my husband opened a fortune cookie that read: ‘You are domestically inclined and will be happily married.’ He put it in a tiny frame and hung it on the wall of our kitchen. I hope it hangs there until we die.”
Says Kim on tell me something lovely: “Our dog is seven, and just this year, she’s starting to slow down. She can tell, and we can tell. So, I’ve stopped mindlessly petting her and started really looking into her eyes when I give her love. I talk to her, thanking her for everything she gives to us. She is such a sweet, sweet girl.”
Says Tracey on what’s your irrational fear: “Looking at these, I have to conclude you are all bananas. Your fears are SO irrational. Most will never happen. I have none myself. Oh, except green lights at nighttime, where I am certain that a car will run a red and smash me to smithereens. And maybe also squirrels. They move quicker than my eyes can see — like frame by frame, I miss a couple. Monkeys are squirrel-adjacent. Winged monkeys don’t help. And police. Getting in trouble, in general. But other than that I am super chill. Very, very chill.”
(Photo by Ignacio Amenábar/Unsplash.)
**Enjoy a Relaxing and Stress-Free Weekend**
In today’s fast-paced world, finding time to unwind and relax is crucial for maintaining mental and physical well-being. A serene and stress-free weekend can rejuvenate your spirit and prepare you for the week ahead. Here are some tips to help you make the most of your weekend downtime.
**1. Plan Ahead:**
To ensure a stress-free weekend, planning ahead is important. Make a list of activities you want to do and prioritize them. This can include leisure activities, chores, or time to simply relax. By having a plan, you can avoid the stress of last-minute decisions and make the most of your time.
**2. Disconnect from Technology:**
Constant notifications and screen time can contribute to stress. Consider setting aside specific times to check your phone or emails, and spend the rest of your weekend unplugged. Use this time to engage in activities that don’t involve screens, such as reading a book, taking a walk, or practicing a hobby.
**3. Engage in Relaxing Activities:**
Select activities that help you unwind and bring joy. This could be anything from taking a long bath, practicing yoga or meditation, to gardening or trying a new recipe. These activities can help reduce stress levels and promote a sense of calm.
**4. Spend Time in Nature:**
Nature has a calming effect on the mind and body. Spend time outdoors, whether it’s a hike in the woods, a walk in the park, or just sitting in your backyard. The fresh air and natural surroundings can help clear your mind and reduce stress.
**5. Practice Mindfulness:**
Mindfulness involves being present in the moment and fully engaging with your surroundings. Practice mindfulness by focusing on your breathing, observing your thoughts without judgment, and appreciating the present moment. This can help lessen anxiety and increase relaxation.
**6. Prioritize Sleep:**
Ensure you get enough rest over the weekend. Sleep is crucial for stress management and overall health. Create a relaxing bedtime routine, avoid caffeine and screens before bed, and aim for 7-9 hours of quality sleep each night.
**7. Connect with Loved Ones:**
Spending quality time with friends and family can boost your mood and reduce stress. Plan a casual get-together, share a meal, or enjoy a conversation. Social connections are vital for emotional well-being.
**8. Limit Obligations:**
While it’s important to fulfill responsibilities, try to limit obligations that can wait until the workweek. Use your weekend to focus on activities that bring you joy and relaxation, rather than overloading yourself with tasks.
**9. Reflect and Set Intentions:**
Take some time to reflect on the past week and set intentions for the upcoming one. This can help you feel more organized and mentally prepared. Journaling can be a useful tool for reflection and setting goals.
**10. Embrace Spontaneity:**
While planning is important, don’t forget to leave room for spontaneity. Sometimes the best moments are unplanned. Allow yourself the flexibility to change plans if something more enjoyable arises.
By incorporating these strategies, you can craft a weekend that is both peaceful and refreshing. Remember, the key to a stress-free weekend is balance—finding the right mix of relaxation, activity, and connection that works for you.
