What are your plans for this weekend? We’re planning a relaxing night at home today, and then Alison and her spouse are hosting a combined 40th birthday celebration! I’m thrilled to dress up and perform karaoke in a wig, as is customary. Wishing you a pleasant weekend, and here are some interesting links from across the web…
12 genuine ways to foster friendships as an adult. (Big Salad)
Isn’t this kitchen transformation amazing?
We prepared white chicken chili this week, and the boys devoured it. (NYTimes gift link)
A taste of Paris has arrived on the Upper East Side! I explored Sézane’s third NYC store this week, and it’s breathtaking.
The top 100 TV shows of the 21st century. Do you agree or not?
Awww, a morning tip to brighten your day.
Are you planning to paint your nails bordeaux this autumn?
Athleta has a 30% discount on everything at the moment. It’s a great chance to grab cozy clothing, like this ideal rain jacket and work-from-home joggers.
Additionally, DSW’s semi-annual sale is happening now. I’d take advantage of the 25% off to get this woven pair, my preferred walking shoes, or this playful pair.
The exceptional cinematography of Pride & Prejudice.
The Stolen Neighbors quilt, incredible.
Advice for a new father.
And sending support to every woman who read the “Cornell seven” news articles and recognized the pattern. The most heartbreaking aspect is that this type of occurrence is not rare; nearly every woman I know has faced sexual assault. I was moved by the empowering article Abolish Frat Culture by Bess Kalb. “This might be uncomfortable for those with a son in a fraternity to contemplate,” she stated. “If your son is part of a group that would send a ‘free pussy’ message, it’s too late. The group is the problem, the message is a symptom.” It’s all worth reading here. I’ve always disliked frats, and I will continue to dislike them, and I desire to see them dismantled.
Also, two reader remarks:
May comments on four delightful activities: “Experiencing a challenging day/week/month? Just here to express that the way we yearn to live within the settings and soundtracks of our cherished films and shows is how I perceive your site. It provides a small escape into a delightful mini-world. That’s everything.”
Anna shares on thoughts of mortality: “Since my father’s sudden passing a few years back, this poem has been my solace on difficult grief days:
Death Is Nothing At All by Henry Scott Holland
Death is nothing at all.
It does not count.
I have only slipped away into the next room.
Nothing has happened.
Everything remains exactly as it was.
I am I, and you are you, and the old life that we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged.
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.
Call me by the old familiar name.
Speak of me in the easy way which you always used.
Put no difference into your tone.
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was.
Let it be spoken without an effort, without the ghost of a shadow upon it. Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was.
There is absolute and unbroken continuity.
What is this death but a negligible accident
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight
I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just round the corner.
All is well.
Nothing is hurt; nothing is lost.
One brief moment and all will be as it was before.
How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again!”
(Photo by Nuno Silva/Stocksy.)
**Wishing You a Delightful Weekend: Ideas for Relaxation and Enjoyment**
As the week concludes, the excitement of the weekend brings relief and eagerness. Whether you’re planning to relax, seek adventure, or catch up on tasks, the weekend is a valuable chance to recharge and refresh. Here are some suggestions to make the most of your weekend and ensure it is both enjoyable and fulfilling.
**1. Focus on Relaxation:**
After a hectic week, it’s important to permit yourself to unwind. Consider activities that help you relax, like reading a book, taking a gentle walk, or practicing yoga. These can lower stress and boost your overall well-being.
**2. Organize a Small Adventure:**
If you crave excitement, plan a brief trip or explore an unfamiliar area in your city. Visit a local museum, hike a nearby trail, or try a new dining spot. A change of scenery can be revitalizing and invigorating.
**3. Spend Time with Loved Ones:**
Weekends are perfect for nurturing connections with family and friends. Plan a gathering, whether it’s a simple brunch or a game night. Meaningful interactions can elevate your mood and build cherished memories.
**4. Immerse in a Hobby:**
Allocate time for a hobby or activity you cherish. Whether it’s painting, gardening, or playing a musical instrument, indulging in something you enjoy can be extremely fulfilling and satisfying.
**5. Embrace Mindfulness:**
Introduce mindfulness practices to your weekend routine. Dedicate a few moments to meditate, journal, or simply stay present. Mindfulness can enhance clarity and allow you to appreciate life’s simple pleasures.
**6. Get Ready for the Next Week:**
While relaxation is vital, setting aside time to prep for the coming week can ease stress. Organize your agenda, plan meals, or set weekly goals. This groundwork can provide a sense of control and readiness.
**7. Ensure Adequate Sleep:**
Make sure to get sufficient rest over the weekend. Proper rest is crucial for both physical and mental health and significantly affects your energy and mood.
**8. Reduce Screen Usage:**
Consider cutting down on screen time to fully savor your weekend. Disconnecting from digital devices allows deeper engagement with your surroundings and those around you.
**9. Relish the Outdoors:**
Being outdoors offers numerous health and wellness benefits. Whether it’s a park picnic or a beach stroll, nature can provide a calming and refreshing experience.
**10. Reflect and Show Gratitude:**
Spend some time reflecting on life’s positives and express gratitude. This practice can boost overall happiness and offer a positive outlook for the week ahead.
As you prepare for the weekend, remember that it’s a time to center on yourself and your happiness. By following these suggestions, you can ensure a delightful and refreshing weekend that readies you for the upcoming week. Wishing you a splendid weekend ahead!
