What’s on your agenda this weekend? Eid Mubarak to those celebrating! Tomorrow, the boys and I are hosting friends for brunch, and we’re having quite the debate over the best bagel orders. I’m forever a sesame-bagel-with-cream-cheese-and-tomato kind of girl. You? Wishing you an enjoyable weekend, and here are a few links from around the internet…
The top trait I seek in a romantic partner, and my perspective on Lindy West’s polyamorous marriage.
Banana Republic is giving 40% off full-priced items (exclusions apply). How stunning is this dress? Also loving their travel packing edit.
Broccoli melts.
How stunning is comedian Bridget Everett’s upstate New York home? (Architectural Digest)
“It’s my third wedding anniversary, and I have some regrets.”
President Obama reveals letters sent to him by people about growing up Muslim-American.
I’ve been engrossed in Love Is Blind Sweden. So intriguing to observe other countries’ versions.
Saw a woman wearing these shoes with jeans yesterday, and they looked amazing. Also, how great are these Reformation look-alikes? (DSW is offering 25% off a range of styles at present with code SPRINGREADY.)
Paris’s cycling network has now surpassed Amsterdam’s in size. (Via Kottke)
Currently craving a non-alcoholic Negroni. (NYTimes gift link)
Eight spring rituals, including “savoring a shower orange.”
How unexpectedly cool is this city shaped like a human?
This newspaper headline made me chuckle.
Plus, three reader remarks:
Says Christina on the sole cough remedy that was effective: “My sister and brother-in-law administered a teaspoon of honey to my three-year-old niece before bed for a week, aiding her sleep during a persistent cough. For months after the cough disappeared, right after tooth-brushing, she’d pause on her way to bed, gaze into your eyes, and declare like clockwork, ‘I been coughin’ a lot.’ Now my husband and I occasionally share the glance and say ‘I been coughin’ a lot.’”
Says Kim on five things that took me by surprise about having a third child: “My daughter is an only child (late-in-life mom here), and she goes through phases of wanting siblings. BUT she has a group of friends who all squeeze into my car, and our home is always lively. Then, at the day’s end, we have her all to ourselves, and she has us all to herself. I’m just grateful there are still areas in this nation where we actually HAVE the choice of the number of children we want. Let’s ensure we safeguard it.”
Says Mette on eight readers share the recipes they have memorized: “Hetty Lui McKinnon’s Soy Sauce Noodles with Cabbage and Fried Eggs! It’s pure comfort food, yet nourishing — I make it whenever I’m alone, so my husband now calls them ‘Home Alone Noodles.’”
(Photo by Melika Tursic/Stocksy.)
**Strategies for a Restful Weekend**
Weekends are a cherished chance to relax and rejuvenate after a hectic week. Yet, without preparation, they can easily become as busy as weekdays. Below are some strategies to help you relish a truly relaxing weekend:
1. **Plan in Advance**: Although spontaneity is enjoyable, having a basic plan can guarantee you maximize your weekend. Decide on several activities you’d like to do, such as visiting a local park, trying a new recipe, or enjoying a good book.
2. **Unplug from Work**: Establish boundaries by turning off work emails and alerts. If feasible, avoid checking work messages until Monday. This will aid in focusing on personal time and alleviating stress.
3. **Sleep is Key**: Utilize the weekend to catch up on sleep. Aim to keep a regular sleep pattern by sleeping and waking at the same time daily. This will aid in regulating your body’s internal clock and enhance sleep quality.
4. **Stay Active**: Physical activity is a fantastic way to reduce stress and lift your mood. Whether it’s a morning jog, yoga session, or a leisurely stroll, choose an activity you enjoy and incorporate it into your weekend.
5. **Embrace Nature**: Nature has a soothing impact on the mind. Spend time outdoors, whether it’s hiking, gardening, or just relaxing in a park. Fresh air and natural settings can help you feel more tranquil and revitalized.
6. **Enjoy a Hobby**: Use weekend time to indulge in activities you love but can’t fit in during the week. Whether it’s painting, cooking, or playing an instrument, hobbies can bring a sense of achievement and delight.
7. **Be Mindful**: Integrate mindfulness practices such as meditation or deep breathing into your weekend. These activities can help decrease stress and elevate your well-being.
8. **Cherish Loved Ones**: Spend meaningful time with family and friends. Be it a casual meet-up or a phone conversation, connecting with loved ones can boost your mood and provide emotional support.
9. **Reduce Screen Time**: Give yourself a reprieve from screens by designating time to unplug. Engage in activities not involving technology, like reading a book, doing a puzzle, or taking a walk.
10. **Self-Treat**: Indulge in a small treat, like a favorite dessert, a relaxing bath, or a movie night. Treating yourself can be a straightforward yet effective way to enhance weekend relaxation.
By incorporating these strategies into your weekend, you can create a more peaceful and fulfilling experience, leaving you rejuvenated and ready for the days to come.

