What are your weekend plans? In the summer, we enjoy lots of ’90s films (Clueless, The Fugitive, The Firm), and next on our list is Quiz Show. Have you seen it before? I recall really loving it. Wishing you a lovely long weekend — maybe with some fireworks? — and here are some links from the web…
Five pals try on 25 swimsuits — and share their loves and hates. (Big Salad)
Typically, I’m not a fan of hot dogs, but these ones look amazing.
Who is up for visiting a quaint red cottage nestled in the Swedish countryside?
I keep noticing ballet sneakers on women passing by our home. Check out this cute leopard pair and a mesh style. (Enjoy 25% off regular-priced styles with code SPARKLERS, valid from July 3rd to 5th.)
Reaching the milestone of 100 years. So touching.
What results when children design playgrounds? Lava, mushrooms, giant chess pieces. (NYTimes gift link)
If you’re searching for me, I’ll be catching up on heatwave tips in a damp cotton T-shirt, next to a fan.
Ever dined out and spotted someone you thought was a celebrity, only to realize later it wasn’t them? Recently, it happened with Stanley Tucci, Scott Speedman, and Randall Park. Proof that we’re awesome, right?
There’s a massive Banana Republic sale until July 8th. I’m eyeing this easy dress, perfect tee, and summer sweater.
Misophonia and fireworks. (New Yorker)
Made me chuckle.
And this summer, Freddie has taken up grilling over the weekend. For those who consume meat sparingly, I appreciate ButcherBox delivering top-notch humanely raised meat and wild seafood to our door. Receive $20 off your first three boxes with code COJ. Thanks, ButcherBox!
Plus, four reader anecdotes:
Anon shares on five pick-me-ups: “When I got divorced, I went to our local mattress shop in Seattle to consider some selections. After I explained my situation to the sales guy, he said, ‘Oh! You want the divorce special!’ He showed me a particularly cozy, mid-priced mattress and urged me to test many others before choosing. Ultimately, he was spot on — I definitely wanted the divorce special.”
Rose states on five pick-me-ups: “This summer, we bought a bubble machine for our two-year-old. It’s sheer MAGIC. Absolute magic! Adults, spoil yourselves with a bubble machine.”
Sar expresses on conversation-starting date questions: “I love food-related questions. Answering an earnest question like ‘What did you eat today?’ from one of the foodies I know has provided comfort for a long time. It’s both intimate and mundane — ideal for a date.”
Betsy comments on 9 genius secondhand shopping pointers: “My top eBay shopping tip came from a Hovey sister on CoJ years ago: employ Boolean search terms! I usually avoid black, so almost all my eBay searches include ‘-black,’ while what matters to me is in quotes, like ‘100% cashmere’ or ‘vintage.’ Absolute game changer.”
(Photo by Giulia Squillace/Unsplash.)
**Savor a Peaceful and Extra Long Weekend**
In today’s bustling world, having the chance to enjoy a peaceful and extra long weekend is an eagerly awaited luxury. Whether it’s a prolonged holiday weekend or a personal day tacked onto your regular Saturday and Sunday, an extra long weekend offers an ideal chance to relax, rejuvenate, and partake in activities that spark joy and ease. Here are some tips and ideas to fully embrace your extra long weekend.
**1. Plan Ahead:**
To make the most of your extra long weekend, a bit of planning can be immensely beneficial. Choose in advance how you wish to spend your time. Whether you plan to travel, enjoy a hobby, or simply chill at home, having a plan can enhance your pleasure and diminish stress.
**2. Disconnect from Work:**
A key component for a relaxing weekend is distancing yourself from work-related tasks. Set boundaries by disabling work emails and alerts. Let your colleagues know you’ll be unavailable, allowing you to deeply engage in personal time without interruptions.
**3. Embrace Nature:**
Spending time in the great outdoors is a fantastic way to relax and refresh. Consider going for a day trip to a nearby park, beach, or hiking path. The fresh air and natural scenery can help clear your head and induce a feeling of peace and calm.
**4. Indulge in a Hobby:**
An extended weekend presents a perfect chance to immerse yourself in a beloved hobby or discover something fresh. Whether it’s painting, gardening, cooking, or playing a musical instrument, engaging in activities you love can be extremely fulfilling.
**5. Pamper Yourself:**
Spoil yourself with some much-needed pampering. This might involve a spa day, a long soak, or simply lounging in cozy attire with a good book or film. Taking time for self-care can help with stress reduction and enrich your overall well-being.
**6. Spend Quality Time with Loved Ones:**
Use the extra time to connect with family and friends. Organize a small gathering, a game night, or simply share a casual meal. Strengthening ties with loved ones can offer emotional backing and happiness.
**7. Explore New Places:**
If you’re feeling daring, contemplate a short trip to explore a new town or city. Even a single day trip can provide a change of scene and a routine break, offering new experiences and memories.
**8. Practice Mindfulness:**
Weave mindfulness activities like meditation or yoga into your weekend. These practices can help focus your mind, alleviate tension, and amplify your sense of relaxation.
**9. Limit Screen Time:**
Though it may be tempting to binge-watch shows or browse social media, try to moderate screen time to spend your weekend more mindfully. Engage in activities that don’t involve a screen to give your eyes and mind a respite.
**10. Reflect and Set Goals:**
Use your downtime to ponder over your personal and professional life. Think about setting some goals for the weeks or months ahead. Reflection can lead to clarity and motivation, aiding you in returning to your routine with renewed concentration.
An extra long weekend is a treasured opportunity to disentangle from life’s hustle and bustle. By planning carefully and prioritizing rest and enjoyment, you can return to the grind feeling invigorated and refreshed. Whether you decide to explore, connect, or just take it easy, savor this time to cultivate your body, mind, and spirit.
